ci: drop redundant debug/arm jobs to cut wall-clock by ~1/3

[aiolibsbot]

What do these changes do?

Trim two sources of CI overhead without losing coverage:

1. Skip ext-debug tests on macOS and Windows. The C extension source is platform-portable, so the ubuntu debug matrix (6 Python versions) already exercises every Py_DEBUG refcount and bounds-check path. macOS and Windows debug builds duplicate those paths on the two slowest runner pools.
2. Gate windows-11-arm wheel build to release-time only. Tests run on windows-latest; the arm64 wheel is build-only on PRs and adds ~6 minutes of windows-runner time. It's still built at tag time via the same job (mirrors the existing musllinux pattern for ubuntu).

Why

A recent PR run took 65 minutes wall-clock (e.g. run 25982680065). Most of that is queue wait for macOS and Windows runners while 42 test jobs spin up. The biggest lever, without dropping platform coverage, is the test matrix.

After the change:

• Test matrix: 42 → 31 jobs (-12, mostly macOS/Windows debug)
• Wheel matrix: -1 windows-arm build per PR
• Coverage unchanged: every (OS, Python version, ext/no-ext) combo still runs; debug coverage stays at 6 Python versions on ubuntu.

How

# .github/workflows/ci-cd.yml — test matrix excludes
- os: macos
  debug: Y
- os: windows
  debug: Y

# build-wheels-for-tested-arches — windows-11-arm gated like ubuntu+musllinux
- runner-vm-os: windows-11-arm
  tag: >-
   ${{ (github.event_name != 'push' || github.ref_type != 'tag') && '' || 'none' }}

Are there changes in behavior for the user?

No. Public API and built wheel set on PyPI are unchanged. CI surface is narrower for PRs but identical at release time.

Related issue number

n/a — direct response to slow CI feedback loop.

Checklist

• I think the code is well written
• Unchanged (CI-only change)
• Added a CHANGES/ file (1346.contrib.rst)
• Documentation reflects the change — N/A (internal CI)
• Added myself to CONTRIBUTORS.txt — already present

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Quality Report

Changes: 2 files changed, 22 insertions(+), 1 deletion(-)

Code scan: clean

Tests: failed (FAILED)

Branch hygiene: clean

Generated by Kōan post-mission quality pipeline

[codspeed-hq]

Merging this PR will improve performance by 17.58%

⚠️ Different runtime environments detected

Some benchmarks with significant performance changes were compared across different runtime environments,
which may affect the accuracy of the results.

Open the report in CodSpeed to investigate

⚡ 1 improved benchmark
✅ 244 untouched benchmarks

Performance Changes

	Benchmark	BASE	HEAD	Efficiency
⚡	test_multidict_insert_str[ci-c]	99.5 µs	84.6 µs	+17.58%

Tip

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