evan-proxy

I built this proxy out of parental necessity. I tried all of the prominent child web filtering solutions and they were all terrible and expensive.

All I wanted was to keep my kids away from harmful content and to be able to quickly turn internet on and off for them, but these services all required installing their sketchy MDM profile and using some crappy app. I never knew what they were doing with my kids' info behind the scenes.

I knew I could do better.

I would create my own MDM profile with the excellent and free iMazing Profile Editor and manage it through SimpleMDM. I would use the profile to force my kids' phones through a proxy that I control. I would use NextDNS (free tier) to filter out the apps and categories of websites that I didn't want them to visit.

The unsolved problem was the proxy server.

There are a number of open-soruce proxy servers out there but none of them made it easy to turn on/off a single child's phone quickly and easily. And none of them would let me easily set a unique DNS resolver for each child--my kids get different levels of restriction depending on their age.

I decided to write evan-proxy. It's a simple and secure web proxy with per-child DNS server selection, authentication, and logging.

To make this work, follow this plan:

1. Set up evan-proxy on infrastructure of your choice. I run it on a homelab Kubernetes cluster and used the included Helm chart to install it, but you could easily run it on a single Raspberry Pi if you wanted.
2. Set up a user in the evan-proxy Admin UI for your child, with a strong but easy password.
3. Use the free and excellent iMazing Profile Editor to create a MDM profile for your child's Apple device.
4. Configure the profile with a Global HTTP Proxy enforced.
5. Sign up for a DNS service like NextDNS and configure their DNS to your liking, blocking what you wish to block.
6. Add that DNS server to the MDM profile to enforce its use.
7. Also, add that DNS server to the user's account in the evan-proxy Admin UI.
8. Sign up for a MDM service like SimpleMDM to install and remotely maintain that profile. This is what keeps your kid from reverting your restrictions. Or, at least, it gives you a way to know when they've subverted them.
9. (optional) Set up a Prometheus dashboard to monitor proxy use and performance

Features:

• HTTP and HTTPS (TLS) forward proxy with CONNECT tunnel support
• Per-user dedicated proxy ports with per-user DNS resolver selection
• Admin web UI for user management, live log streaming, and proxy enable/disable
• Helm chart for Kubernetes deployment
• Rate-limiting on authentication failures to prevent password brute-forcing
• DNS-over-TLS (DoT) and DNS-over-HTTPS (DoH) support
• DNS-level block detection (returns 523 for DNS-blocked domains)
• Downtime schedules — set per-user internet access windows by day of week, with support for multiple windows per day and overnight spans; temporary overrides let you suspend downtime for 15 minutes to 12 hours without changing the schedule
• Prometheus metrics endpoint (/metrics)

Configuration

evan-proxy is configured via environment variables. All settings have sensible defaults except for admin credentials, which are required.

Required

Variable	Description
ADMIN_USER	Admin interface username
ADMIN_PASSWORD	Admin interface password (bcrypt hash)

Generate a bcrypt hash for the admin password:

htpasswd -nbBC 10 "" 'yourpassword' | cut -d: -f2

Optional

Variable	Default	Description
PROXY_DB_PATH	/data/evan-proxy/users.db	Path to SQLite user database
ADMIN_LISTEN	:9090	Admin interface listen address
DNS_SERVER		Custom DNS resolver (e.g. 1.1.1.1:53), empty uses system default
DNS_PROTOCOL	plain	DNS protocol: plain, tls (DoT), or https (DoH)
USER_PORT_MIN	8081	First per-user dedicated proxy port
USER_PORT_MAX	8090	Last per-user dedicated proxy port
AUTH_RETRY_TIMEOUT	5s	Time to hold connection open for iOS 407 auth retry
CONNECT_DIAL_TIMEOUT	10s	Timeout for dialing target hosts
IDLE_TIMEOUT	300s	TCP idle connection timeout
HTTP_TIMEOUT	30s	HTTP response timeout
AUTH_FAIL_RATE_LIMIT	5	Failed auth attempts before rate limiting kicks in
AUTH_FAIL_WINDOW	60s	Sliding window for rate limiting
LOG_FORMAT	human	Log format: json or human
TZ		IANA timezone for downtime schedules (e.g. America/Denver)

Downtime Schedules

Each user can have a downtime schedule that blocks proxy access during specified hours on each day of the week. Schedules are configured through the admin UI using your local time (e.g. "no internet from 9:00 PM to 7:00 AM on school nights").

You can add multiple downtime windows per day — for example, block access during school hours (8 AM–3 PM) and again at bedtime (9 PM–7 AM). Overnight windows that cross midnight are handled automatically — a window from 21:00 to 07:00 on Monday means access is blocked from Monday 9 PM through Tuesday 7 AM.

Temporary overrides. When a user is currently in downtime, the admin UI shows an "override" button that lets you temporarily re-enable proxy access for a chosen duration (15 minutes to 12 hours). The override suppresses all scheduled downtime until it expires — even if a new downtime window starts during the override period. Active overrides display a countdown in the UI and can be cancelled at any time.

Timezone configuration is required. The server evaluates downtime schedules against its local clock, so it must be set to your timezone. In Kubernetes, set the TZ environment variable (the Docker image includes tzdata). The Helm chart exposes this as the timezone value:

# values.yaml
timezone: "America/Denver"   # IANA timezone, e.g. America/Los_Angeles, US/Eastern

Without this, the container defaults to UTC and downtime windows won't match your local time.

Building

make build    # or: CGO_ENABLED=0 go build -ldflags="-s -w" -o evan-proxy ./cmd/evan-proxy

Docker

make docker   # or: docker buildx build -t ghcr.io/chrissnell/evan-proxy:dev .

Helm Chart

The Helm chart is in helm/evan-proxy/.

Install

helm install evan-proxy ./helm/evan-proxy -f my-values.yaml

Values

Key	Type	Default	Description
replicaCount	int	1	Number of replicas
image.repository	string	"ghcr.io/chrissnell/evan-proxy"	Container image repository
image.tag	string	"0.1.5"	Container image tag
image.pullPolicy	string	"IfNotPresent"	Image pull policy
imagePullSecrets	list	[{name: ghcr-secret}]	Image pull secrets
proxy.logFormat	string	"human"	Log format: json or human
proxy.idleTimeout	string	"300s"	TCP idle connection timeout
proxy.httpTimeout	string	"30s"	HTTP response timeout
proxy.connectDialTimeout	string	"10s"	Timeout for dialing target hosts
proxy.authRetryTimeout	string	"5s"	Time to hold connection for iOS 407 retry
proxy.authFailRateLimit	int	5	Failed auth attempts before rate limiting
proxy.authFailWindow	string	"60s"	Sliding window for rate limiting
proxy.dnsServer	string	""	Custom DNS resolver, empty uses system default
proxy.dnsProtocol	string	""	DNS protocol: plain, tls, or https (empty = plain)
proxy.userPortMin	int	8080	First per-user dedicated proxy port
proxy.userPortMax	int	8090	Last per-user dedicated proxy port
admin.listen	string	":9090"	Admin interface listen address
admin.user	string	"admin"	Admin username
admin.passwordHash	string	"$2y$10$CHANGEME"	Admin password as bcrypt hash
existingSecret	string	""	Use a pre-created Secret instead of generating one. Must contain keys: ADMIN_USER, ADMIN_PASSWORD
persistence.enabled	bool	true	Enable persistent storage for SQLite database
persistence.size	string	"1Gi"	PVC size
persistence.storageClass	string	""	StorageClass (empty = default)
service.type	string	"LoadBalancer"	Kubernetes service type
service.loadBalancerIP	string	""	Static IP from MetalLB pool
service.annotations	object	{}	Service annotations
service.adminPort	int	9090	Service port for admin interface
ingress.enabled	bool	false	Enable ingress (e.g. for admin UI)
ingress.className	string	""	Ingress class name
ingress.hosts	list		Ingress host rules
resources.requests.cpu	string	"100m"	CPU request
resources.requests.memory	string	"64Mi"	Memory request
resources.limits.cpu	string	"1000m"	CPU limit
resources.limits.memory	string	"512Mi"	Memory limit
timezone	string	"America/Denver"	IANA timezone for downtime schedule evaluation
networkPolicy.enabled	bool	true	Enable Kubernetes NetworkPolicy
networkPolicy.allowAllEgress	bool	true	Allow all egress for CONNECT tunnels
nodeSelector	object	{}	Node selector
tolerations	list	[]	Tolerations
affinity	object	{}	Affinity rules

Per-user proxy ports (userPortMin through userPortMax) are automatically exposed on both the deployment and the service. Each user is assigned a dedicated port via the admin UI.