Move to Roslyn's unified ExternalAccess library

[JoeRobich]

Description

Change references to Microsoft.CodeAnalysis.ExternalAccess.FSharp into references to Microsoft.VisualStudio.LanguageServices.ExternalAccess. The new external access library has already inserted into VS.

Fixes #20098

Checklist

• Test cases added

• Performance benchmarks added in case of performance changes

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Change path	Release notes path	Description
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